Fort McHenry With 5 Older Kids

July 23, 2008

Here is my report of my first official Summer Adventure!



My youngest is 12 and my oldest is 21, and this was a fun outing. If you live in this area or are planning a trip to this area, it can be a nice, short experience. Our trip was a total of 2 hours including travel time from my house, which is about 25 minutes without traffic. We made it through the visitors' center (including a 15 minute movie) in about 25 minutes, then spent about an hour exploring the fort. As for the driving, I went with no prior experience and I found the the brown national park signs adequate to get me there, but I still keep an ADC map with me at all times to supplement whatever directions I find on the web. I think that helped with the one turn where the sign really could be pointing to either of two possible left turns and you have to be able to see the name of the tiny little street sign to be sure you are turning correctly.

Because of the historical significance of Fort McHenry, I would venture to say that this could be on every American's Life List of Places to Visit. It was my first in-person visit and it was well-worth it. Growing up around here, it was always in my consciousness-I'd seen the giant flag down at the Smithsonian, I'd heard the story, I felt that "Baltimore Pride" about the National Anthem, knew the significance, etc. and let that suffice for a long time. Visiting the fort itself brought all that to life in a very immediate, emotional way. The fort was interesting, with many areas opened up to the public and nicely maintained exhibits showing life at the fort, including living quarters, munitions storage, and good signs all around. The kids really liked the views of the Baltimore Harbor, the cannons, and reading about how they have different sizes of flags and change the flag based on the current weather conditions. (Big flags need a lot of wind.)

Our docent was an older gentleman who showed genuine emotion about the role of Fort McHenry in our nation's history. His presentation was the highlight for me. As Corinne said in her post about it, surviving the war of 1812 was a close shave, and I really enjoyed learning more of the details about that.

So, I highly recommend this as a great place for families to visit. It is mere minutes from the Baltimore Inner Harbor and could easily be combined with an afternoon visit to the MD Science Center or the National Aquarium in Baltimore. In fact, my kids asked if we could go do something in the inner harbor. We had other plans for the afternoon, but I wish I'd planned better because they are so close.


Cross-posted to Summer Adventure Challenge

Thanks

July 22, 2008


Thanks for the love, friends. Your comments really helped me get through a rough day. My friend made it too, and is feeling a bit better for now.

Today I'm off on the first of my official Summer Adventure Challenge activities: Fort McHenry with the kids. Everyone is here and they are actually enthusiastic about going. More later then.

An Attempt at Distraction

July 21, 2008

I am on a suicide watch for a friend (seriously) so not much sleep last night and now I wait for her call to know if she made it through the night. She lives in an assisted living facility, so she's not alone, but the fact that she hasn't called has my mind racing as to whether something actually happened this time or if this is her regular monthly suicide threat to manipulate me into spending more time with her and she's merely sleeping soundly. I try to keep my blog happy so I don't say too much about this, but this relationship has become a really big part of my life and sometimes it gets to be a little heavy on my shoulders. A dear friend who also knows A. went over with me last night to try and calm her down, pray with her and get her settled into bed. Now it's just hour by hour to try and convince her not to take her life. It is so painful to see her empty eyes and feel her despair.

So, in the midst of someone else's darkness, I tried to focus on my own light. I spent some time in the space before and after my 4 hours of trying to sleep making this collage of my son Johnathan at the temple last week. He is preparing to serve his mission for our church in September and one of the important steps of preparation is attending the temple for the first time. It is a rite of passage for a latter-day saint-a special worship service that involves the making of promises and receiving of blessings--it signifies a deepening commitment to one's faith. For a parent who tries to transmit values and hopes a child will choose a path that I believe will yield the happiest possible life, it is a lovely thing to see this child choose to take this step. It means that he has chosen this religion for himself and is starting to act on his own belief, rather than rely on the example and routines of his family.

Well, my friend just called. She's still alive. I guess I can get on with my day, at least for now. Thanks for reading.

Memory Game

July 18, 2008

I got this from Everybody! Play!!

1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!

2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you.

Out on a Limb




Okay, I'm doing it! I'm submitting these pictures to the Monuments of Faith juried Exhibition today! I named them "The Ancients," "Future is Bright," and "Stays Together." I'll let you know if they get picked to hang in the show!

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